Recruitment
Membership Criteria
- You are a legal adult in Australia and have attained the age of at least 18 years.
- You are of sound mind.
- Fit and Healthy – You must be of good health and fitness to serve and worship our Mistresses because BDSM activities can be strenuous and demanding on the body. You must voluntarily disclose upfront any relevant health issues.
- You must be willing to pay the membership fee
- You must strictly comply with our Membership Rules
- You must not have a bad reputation and standing within the BDSM and femdom community – if you have a history of misbehaviour and being banned by many Mistresses then you will not be accepted.
- You must be physically located in Australia
- You must provide WhatsApp number with Australian mobile number.
- You must have Beem App.
Membership Rules
We don’t have these rules because we are pedantic, Christmas hating grinches. Quite the contrary – we want to have fun and pursue kinky pleasures. However, we have learnt from experience, when we associate with those who do not honour these rules and protocols – someone, somewhere is inevitably left holding the bag and usually it’s not the offender. As a not-for-profit club we are not here to “provide a service” and we have very limited time and resources to deal with bad or reckless behaviour. So to create a fun, safe, trusting and friction-free environment to pursue our collective passions, we strictly enforce these rules:
- Be punctual – show up on time. If you are not early and waiting then you are probably late.
- Have integrity – “say what you mean and mean what you say” – be honest and transparent with your communication. Do not lie to a Mistress – you will only be digging a deeper grave for yourself!
- Don’t be a timewaster – be considerate and respect everyone’s finite time and energies. The universe does not revolve around you. Common examples of timewasting behaviour: failure to read information, failure to follow instructions, fake/insincere/lazy enquiries, reaching out when unsure/undecided without bothering to do own research, providing vague/low-effort answers etc.
- Privacy and confidentiality – what happens at the party, stays at the party.
- Do not approach nor acknowledge anyone you have met at the parties outside of them. For a lot of our members – Femdom, BDSM and kink are very secret aspect of their lives and they wish to compartmentalise it.
- Do not attempt to use the parties to facilitate any contact outside of the parties.
- Respect consent. BDSM is all about consent. Consent can be withdrawn at any time. If unsure, err on the side of caution.
- Practice excellent hygiene. Always shower and groom yourself properly before arriving at our events.
Practice good public health. For example, if you have a contagious illness e.g. cold/flu then stay at home and do not attend the party. - Take responsibility – if you break the rules – take responsibility and make amends with concrete gestures.
- Apologies with empty words are meaningless.
- Be considerate – refrain from any behaviour that unreasonably interferes with the legitimate interest of another member or guest.
- Violation of any of the above rules could result in fines, ban and/or expulsion. Show respect for your fellow members and tread carefully.