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How it Works

  1. Read the Membership Criteria and Membership Rules below very carefully.
  2. Complete Application Form accurately – make sure your whatsapp number and email address are correct.
  3. If accepted, we will WhatsApp you with payment details and instructions to pay membership fee immediately.
  4. For the duration of your membership: based on the information you have provided us – you will be invited to attend the parties suitable to you on a ‘first in, best dressed’ basis.
  5. Please accept or decline promptly.
  6. If you have accepted, then you will be sent payment information to purchase tickets with a strict deadline. If you fail to pay within the provided deadline or suggest an alternative deadline with us in good faith, then you will be banned from our Society.

Membership Criteria

    1. You are a legal adult in Australia and have attained the age of at least 18 years.
    2. You are of sound mind.
    3. Fit and Healthy – You must be of good health and fitness to serve and worship our Mistresses because BDSM activities can be strenuous and demanding on the body. You must voluntarily disclose upfront any relevant health issues.
    4. You must strictly comply with our Membership Rules.
    5. You must not have a bad reputation and standing within the BDSM and femdom community – if you have a history of misbehaviour and have been banned by our Mistresses then you will not be accepted. If you previously have disgraced your reputation with any of our Mistresses, then we suggest you contact them directly to beg for forgiveness and to unban you first.
    6. You must provide a valid WhatsApp number with Australian mobile number. This is essential as we require this for your discreet check-in to our events.
    7. You must provide a valid email address. If you require a free, privacy-focused email service we recommend Proton Mail.
    8. You must be ready, willing and able to pay the annual membership fee of $5.
    9. You must be ready, willing and able to pay the annual membership fee by either Beem App, bank transfer or ATM cash deposit immediately upon being contacted.

Membership Rules

We don’t have these rules because we are pedantic, Christmas hating grinches. Quite the contrary – we want to have fun and pursue kinky pleasures. However, we have learnt from experience, when we associate with those who do not honour these rules and protocols – someone, somewhere is inevitably left holding the bag and usually it’s not the offender. As a not-for-profit club we are not here to “provide a service” and we have very limited time and resources to deal with bad or reckless behaviour. So to create a fun, safe, trusting and friction-free environment to pursue our collective passions, we strictly enforce these rules:

  1. Be punctual – show up on time. If you are not early and waiting then you are probably late.
  2. Have integrity – “say what you mean and mean what you say” – be honest and transparent with your communication. Do not lie to a Mistress – you will only be digging a deeper grave for yourself!
  3. Don’t be a timewaster – be considerate and respect everyone’s finite time and energies. The universe does not revolve around you. Common examples of timewasting behaviour: failure to read information, failure to follow instructions, fake/insincere/lazy enquiries, reaching out when unsure/undecided without bothering to do own research, providing vague/low-effort answers etc.
  4. Privacy and confidentiality – what happens at the party, stays at the party.
  5. Do not approach nor acknowledge anyone you have met at the parties outside of them. For a lot of our members – Femdom, BDSM and kink are very secret aspect of their lives and they wish to compartmentalise it.
  6. Do not attempt to use the parties to facilitate any contact outside of the parties.
  7. Respect consent. BDSM is all about consent. Consent can be withdrawn at any time. If unsure, err on the side of caution.
  8. Practice excellent hygiene. Always shower and groom yourself properly before arriving at our events.
  9. Practice good public health. For example, if you have a contagious illness e.g. cold/flu then stay at home and do not attend the party.
  10. Take responsibility – if you break the rules – take responsibility and make amends with concrete gestures. Apologies with empty words are meaningless.
  11. Be considerate – refrain from any behaviour that unreasonably interferes with the legitimate interest of another member or guest.
  12. Violation of any of the above rules could result in fines, ban and/or expulsion. If this happens, you will NOT be refunded any payment you have made whatsoever. Show respect for your fellow members and tread carefully.
  13. Similar to the age verification requirements of NSW licensed venue laws, if you “appear to look under 25 years of age”, please bring VALID photo ID. The onus is on you to prove to us that you are an adult with legally acceptable ID, if you fail to do so – you will be asked to leave and your ticket and fees you have paid will NOT be refundable. Please refer to NSW government website here for the definition of VALID photo ID.

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