FAQs

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Our events are members only. Anyone 18+ who agrees to follow our rules can apply to be a member. Once you are a member, events are ticketed on a “first in, first served basis” (unless in the most exceptional of circumstances).


Most parties go for three hours. Member attendees are usually free to leave anytime as long as they advise the Butler. Exact details for each event will be advised beforehand.

You’re very welcome to attend our Foot Fetish parties. You’re also welcome to attend our Classic Mistress Femdom parties where our Mistresses indulge in having their feet worshipped. However, you will be required to follow slave protocol at these events which may not be to your liking.

The Mistresses who are listed in the Events information will be attending that particular event/party. However sometimes a Mistress may be unable to show up due to emergency reasons or misadventure. If a Mistress is unable to attend we will do our best to replace them.

The number of Mistresses and slaves in attendance varies depending on the party. Our preferred ratio is two slaves per Mistress/Hostess plus one. However, on the rare occasion, a Mistress/Hostess may cancel or no-show and this is beyond our control. In such instances, the maximum will never be more than three slaves per Mistress/Hostess plus one at any event. For example, a party with three Mistresses/Hostesses will never have more than ten slaves.

Not to worry – we would be very happy to assist you. We suggest you arrive at the event wearing a hat and face mask. During the check-in process, you will be provided with a face mask upon your request.

If an event/party has a specific theme – then follow the instructions provided. Otherwise, typically slaves would be required to be semi-naked/topless wearing a clean slave loincloth provided by the club at the event/party. However, if this is not suitable then the slave must advise in advance before the event what the issue is and seek approval to bring their own full coverage bodysuit Zentai, latex or faux leather costume. No other costume will be permitted i.e. wearing ordinary civvy clothing will not be permitted during an event/party for subs/slaves. There are two reasons for this: the dress code for subs/slaves must be obviously befitting of the party theme and your role as a femdom slave. Secondly, we want to give all attendees the comfort that there are no hidden cameras so they can have a peace of mind while they serve.

This depends on each individual event/party. Non-specific venue details for each party can usually be found on the Events page. The address is released to ticket holders the day before the event. We usually select venues that are highly accessible: convenient location, easy parking options, close to public transport.


That depends completely on which type of party it is. But here is typically what happens in. To avoid overcrowding at the door, slaves are advised to wait nearby 50m away and to approach entry immediately ONLY upon being messaged on Whatsapp. A Mistress will greet the slave and introduce him to the Butler who will scan the ticket, and assist the slave with the cloakroom process, before returning the slave to the care and control of a Mistress.

Firstly, we strictly require all attendees not to bring any valuables and unnecessary items to our event as will not take any responsibility for them. Having said that, we always have a highly organised and secure Cloakroom system at our events. Precise details and instructions will be provided to attendees. All attendees including subs, slaves and Mistresses must check-in all their property (including their smartphone) with the cloakroom host/ Butler as soon as they arrive. This is to give all attendees the full confidence that their privacy is strictly safeguarded.

The Dominas and service slaves involved in our parties take hygiene very seriously.  All equipment is cleaned with hospital grade disinfectant and where necessary also sterilised before the party. During the party each item is cleaned after each use with hospital grade anti-bacterial wipes, and disposables items are utilised wherever possible. Gloves, condoms, anti-bacterial wipes and anti-bacterial hand gel are always provided and used at our parties.

Attendees are NOT allowed to take photos, film, nor record any audio, photos nor videos whatsoever. As a matter of fact, all attendees including subs, slaves and Mistresses will be required to safely check-in all their property (including their smartphone) with the cloakroom host/ Butler as soon as they arrive. This is to give all attendees the full confidence that their privacy is strictly safeguarded.

In NSW it is an offence under the Crimes Act 1900 Section 91P to record an intimate image without consent. An intimate image is defined as an image or video recording showing a person’s private parts, a person engaged in a private act or in circumstances that a reasonable person would expect to be private. So this would obviously apply to our parties and anyone caught breaching this will be referred to police.

Only the Butler will be allowed to take photos and videos for promotional purposes. This will ONLY ever be done so with the full prior written permission of all person(s) featured in the photo or video.

We endeavour to keep everyone well-hydrated with water, however alcohol is not consumed during the party. We aim to play responsibly, so if you are unable to play without alcohol then our parties are unfortunately probably not for you.

Absolutely not! Also, members are not permitted to attend any of our events under the influence of alcohol or drugs whatsoever.

We believe in freedom of association and choice, that is, consenting adults should be able to associate freely with whom ever they like. While we aim to be as inclusive as possible, some of our events and activities are limited to certain gender, sex and sexuality. We do this to maximise the enjoyment and comfort of our members and event participants. For example, at a Lesbian Femdom party, only lesbian cisgender females are allowed to attend. As a ‘voluntary body’, we reserve the right to do so as provided by Sex Discrimination Act 1984 (Cth) s39 and Anti-Discrimination Act 1977 NSW) s57.

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